This morning I was looking in the freezer for my leftover cauliflower cheese for lunch. It needed to come out early to defrost. As I reached in, I picked up an old plastic container slightly worn now after years of use. And with it came a memory. The box was given to me about eightContinue reading “The Old Tupperware Box”
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The moment of meeting a bee
It happens on the garden path, in that ordinary corridor between the back door and the day. You are not looking for anything in particular. The air still carries the coolness of morning, though the sun has begun its quiet work. Gravel shifts under your step. A blackbird is somewhere behind you, rehearsing. And thenContinue reading “The moment of meeting a bee”
Notes from a Slow Time Traveller
I recently realised something that felt both obvious and oddly liberating:we are all time travellers. I time travelled from 1964 to today. It just took me 62 years to get here. When people talk about time travel, they imagine machines, portals, or sudden leaps across centuries. But in reality, most of us are moving throughContinue reading “Notes from a Slow Time Traveller”
An unplanned Bench Chat
I don’t record every bench chat I have, sometimes because people don’t want me to record them. Sometimes because I don’t realise stopping for a quick catch up is going to turn into a “Bench Chat” moment. On this occasion a simple question to me – “What are you up to?” Evolved into a conversationContinue reading “An unplanned Bench Chat”
Pull Up a Seat
What I Learned from the Bench Chat Project By Deborah Needle, Community Facilitator, Naturally Birmingham Let me tell you something I’ve learned through this work: sometimes, the simplest ideas are the ones that change people the most. The Friendship Bench Chat wasn’t born in a boardroom, from a strategy paper, or after a round ofContinue reading “Pull Up a Seat”
Reflecting on my role
The Loneliness of the Long-Distance Community Facilitator Being a Community Facilitator for the Future Parks Accelerator (FPA) Project is a role filled with purpose, passion, and—sometimes—loneliness. As the final stage of the FPA project that looked at urban nature development comes to a close, I am asking those involved in the project to reflect onContinue reading “Reflecting on my role”